I think we should start a new thread to keep the jokes this is our site if you are offended by jokes DO NOT READ THEM. IVAN
Surely laughter is one of the most valuable coping strategies we have - please Moderators donât take this away from us. We NEED Wobblyboy and his jokes⌠Others too.
Ivan, I agree with you 100%.
ann
Maybe we could have a âJust for funâ section and that way everyone would know what it was about!
Sonia x
Stewartâs âstickyâ post at the top of the page on âJokes on the MS Society Forumâ sets down the Societyâs position on this quite clearly. Not much more to be said, I donât think.
May I suggest that we all try to be mindful of the resource and other constraints within which those who keep this forum afloat are operating. Letâs just be glad that theyâre hanging on in there and doing their best for us.
Alison
lt was the Just a Giggle thread that was closed down.
Who is this forum for - lts for us - so lets make the majority happy for once.
it seems to me that the limited resources keeping this site open are going to be less stretched, very soon, because far fewer people will visit/post, as people seek other places to get their regular âpick-me-upâ of humour, or would that be the desired effect?! iâd be interested to know what proportion of visiting MSers find humour a necessary outlet.
xx
Iâm sorry I appear to be in a minority of one, and I must stress I am NOT the person who complained (so must be in a minority of at least two, in that case), but I found the threads dedicated only to recycled internet jokes, lame, boring, and a waste of space. Some of them were based on crude stereotypes too, and might have been offensive to some, even though they werenât to me personally.
We are all guests here, itâs not âourâ site - itâs the Societyâs site - they say what goes.
The more carping there is about management decisions, the closer we come to losing the forums altogether. Is that what some people want? Every new thread about this is more resource spent on having to monitor and eventually lock and remove it.
There are folks here who are naturally very witty writers about the trials and tribulations of everyday life with MS. Iâm sure itâs not them this is aimed at. But thereâs not much wit in copying and pasting old jokes that have been doing the rounds for years.
If anyone feels thereâs no point being on this forum unless they are allowed to do that, it seems a great shame, as I feel there is plenty of other worthwhile material - including more lighthearted anecdotes about real things that have happened to people - so certainly not all doom and gloom. And there are plenty of alternative online resources for collections of âbadâ jokes.
Tina
If the MSS says no jokes on these forums, whether we like it or not, then thatâs it.
I support this decision because there were some âjokesâ that were near the knuckle and a lot of the âjokesâ were not funny.
Chill out guys, learn the art of compromising and move on
X
There is room for all so letâs get in touch with our kindness self and loosen up please
Have you watched the news this morning and caught up with the important things.
Peace and light to you all xx
Jokes are gone from the forums now sad but true Thatâs the MSS position and we need to live by itâŚ
Iâm wholeheartedly with Anitra on this one - this is really good MS forum, a rare thing on the internet. There are myriad other places you can go for jokes.
I just think itâs sad if we canât laugh at something funny and I know that everyoneâs sense of humour is different, but still sad.
I agree with you Tina.
To me the issue is the distinction between offensive jokes and inoffensive ones. Unfortunately that line became blurred and led to the banning of all jokes.
I would really hope that forum users see beyond the âjokeâ issue and continue to contribute to the forum. It is here to support people with MS, something which it does very well and we all have a role to play in that.
Anne
A witty, even barbed, anecdote written succinctly beats obvious âjokesâ any day.
Yeh, an emotive subject and I can see both sides of the argumentâŚbeing a libran!
Jokes make us laff, laffter is good for us
BUT
As MSS resources are limitedâŚand we would rather more donations went on research than moderating this forum, then we gotta accept the reasons why too many jokes takes up too much time in moderation.
Maybe a little joke here and there, written into a funny, but true scenario, will be acceptable.
pollxx
Nice one Poll
forums are communities. for sure, this particular community is united by quite a sombre commonality known as MS. but does this mean no humour is to be tolerated?
for me, i derive value from this resource in ways other than smiles from puns or âlame recycledâ jokes. i tend not to read the contributions from the more comedic members of this community; the woblyboys etc⌠nothing personal, i just ainât in here for that. am i bothered that they are? not all. are they bothered that i am not? not at all.
i think if someone was so outraged as to complain about the presence of humour (good, bad or indifferent), well i think that is unfortunate. but we are a community and their sense of entitlement should be tolerated, just in the same way as the jokers should be allowed to persist.
create a clearly distinct thread or folder dedicated to humour (and cat videos etcâŚ) and let people deal with this shitty illness in the best way they know how. life is not already tough enough for some eh?
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forums are communities. for sure, this particular community is united by quite a sombre commonality known as MS. but does this mean no humour is to be tolerated?
for me, i derive value from this resource in ways other than smiles from puns or âlame recycledâ jokes. i tend not to read the contributions from the more comedic members of this community; the woblyboys etc⌠nothing personal, i just ainât in here for that. am i bothered that they are? not all. are they bothered that i am not? not at all.
i think if someone was so outraged as to complain about the presence of humour (good, bad or indifferent), well i think that is unfortunate. but we are a community and their sense of entitlement should be tolerated, just in the same way as the jokers should be allowed to persist.
create a clearly distinct thread or folder dedicated to humour (and cat videos etcâŚ) and let people deal with this shitty illness in the best way they know how. life is not already tough enough for some eh?
[/quote] very well said g