I've had urge incontince for 15 years now and I manage it with pads and I use Kentera patches which help with my erratic bladder. At the moment it's really bothering me. I can't move without weeing myself. If I go to stand up I do it, in fact any movement and there it goes. It's doing my head in and I'm getting through more pads than I get (delivered from NHS).
After all this time I should be used to it but I just wish I could go place without planning how many pads to take anf look for toilets all the time Urg !!!!
Just felt like moaning.