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Sex drive... Viagra?

Hello, I’m female, 33, and have absolutely no desire for sex. I’ve been with my partner for five years and before MS we had lots of sex. Now, nothing. I think that my lack of sex drive has knocked his confidence (I never come on to him). I’ve spoken to my neurologist and she said it could be a number of things - confidence in myself etc, but I’ve been working out and lost weight and look better than I ever have. I just don’t want it at all. I struggle with orgasm but to be honest I’m not bothered if I don’t come every time; I like the intimacy. How do you folks deal with it? Any girls out there taken viagra and found it helped? I took it once before MS and it definitely enhanced sex for me then… Any ideas anyone? This is driving me nuts! Thanks in advance

Well it takes 2 to tango as they say, - you may be ok with not orgasming - (could always do “when Harry met Sally”) but how about him? theres more than one way to turn him on. Maybe experiment. Sex toys? Communicate with him and find out what really turns him on…

You have probably read all this stuff already, but just in case.

https://support.mstrust.org.uk/shop?prodid=213

He always comes when we do have sex. I feel that I’m the problem here

Your not bothered. He’s obviously having a great time. There’s no problem

Take a lesson from Sally!