Oh please. Not again. It's too soon.

Everyday living
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Hi

As some of you know it’s been a tought time recently and fate is dealing her deadly hand yet again.

Exactly a year ago my dad was taken to hospital and was diagnosed with terminal cancer. He was taken from me on Christmas Eve and cremated on New Year’s Eve a couple of months ago.

And now another year on to the date my mum has been taken in to the same hospital and was diagnosed with life threatening perforated bowels. She has just come out of emergency surgery and will have a week in intensive care. Touch and go.

Lady fate is in a bad mood with our devastated and shattered family at the moment.

Marty

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hi marty

thats another cruel blow to you and your family.

it really hammers home the importance of always telling your loved ones that they are loved.

wishing you a good outcome for your mum

carole x

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Hi Marty your having a really tough time. Hope your mum gets better soon. My family are getting the same hand at the monent, my granda has taken another stroke and now is pretty much bed bound.he can’t really speak. But he squeezed my hand. He has a hospital bed home. He went to toilet fell asleep/ or zoned out my granny couldn’t lift him. And the numbers she was given took over an hour to move him. My other granda has dementia and has really deteriorated the last year. And then I was diagnosed last year and it’s highly active. So it’s been just a nightmare. Hope thing improve for u soon

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Oh, Marty

Sometimes life is just too cruel. I’m sure the hospital are doing all they can, I hope your mum recovers soon.

Take care

Tracey x

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Hi Marty

You have had an awful lot to deal with, I have everything crossed for a good outcome.

Pam x

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u r in mty thoughtsss

ellie x

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Hiya to all the above,

Thank you for your kind messages.

You are quite right we should really treasure our loved ones. Life can be cruel and is tough. I’m sure we can get through this latest one. We have to. Don’t we?

I thank you all again, that I feel close to this forum to express my feelings and to seek comfort from you all.

Marty

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Oh Marty, that is just so rotten… I hope you have a calmer and more positive year ahead of you

Sonia x

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Marty, I’m sorry about your dad and sorry too, that if you posted on here about him at the time, that I missed that message or I would have sent condolences to you then. Hope your mums operation was a success and that she pulls through ok. Thinking about you all. Cheryl:-)

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Hi Marty.hope your mum recovers,youve had such a lot to deal with,it seems to happen like that at times, i had a few bad things,one after the other with family deaths and illness,you seem to just get over one thing and before you know it,you get another bad thing happen,lifes so unfair at times.

J x

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Hi Marty

life can be so cruel, you are having a really tough time. It’s easy to say stay strong, but you must try to.

My thoughts are with you and fingers crossed for your Mam to make a swift recovery.

Freckles xxx

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Hi Marty, Life can be so cruel and unfair. I really pray that your mum comes through ok? In many cases the NHS does a really good job with advances made all the time. Em - Sad about both your grandas - tough times for you. Reminds me of the importance to appreciate all my family and to tell them more often than I do that I love them Thinking of you all in such hard times Min xx