I know how hard it may seem to you at times I’ve been through something similar,
and yes it did make me angry at the time but all that they have and own can be changed in a heartbeat.
My sister had everything when she married big house nice cars, housekeeper . Children at private school, they didn’t want to know me , l got a phone call once a year if l was lucky.
to her friends l was the poor sister with M S. She used to send me a hamper once a year from F & M.
what the hell l was supposed to do with that l have no idea, it was full of things l would never eat but the basket came in handy.
until her husband started drinking heavily and got addicted to coke ( not the drink ) he lost his job they lost their home and lifestyle and their poor children had to leave their school and go to the local school where they were bulled due to going to a
private school. and heaven forbid she had to get a job and work for a living.
They now live in a rented house , he’s in Rehab and she’s never off the phone wanting help.
in all of this it’s my niece and nephews l feel sorry for , my heart goes out to them but there is little l can do.
so you see it may not all be sweetness and light behind the front door in their homes and families, and as the old saying goes
Be kind to those you meet on the way up,
because you don’t know if you will need them on the way down.
Try to enjoy what you have . even though this crappy disease drags us down. We learn to drag ourselves back up
Take Care of yourself.
Margaret ( Charlie B )