My mum had ms from before i was born, i turn 18 next month and shes hsd it 23 years. She stabalized walking with a frame and 2 carere a say then in the space of 5 months this happened. She went wheel chair bound needing 3 carers then kept getting admittrd to hospital with utis. She then became bedridden but was still there convosation wise.
Slowly she started losinh her mind a bit, forgetting my name yhen remembering it, generally more confused. Then she stopped eating and drinming and not taking her meds Nd i dont know why but i was in care from young so i qasnt allowed to live there and could only visit. 3 weeks ago she started not really veung able to speak and going ill, eyes looling right through you as shw looked around and not remembering who i was.
Now she cant speak, swallow, move and dows not know whats gpimg on in the world. She can only make a kind of gruntkng sound whwn im there but not when anyone elae therw they cant give anything orally because she will choke , they tried to put a feeding tube in her nosw but she pulls them out so thehre doing a assesment to put something in her stomach for food and medication bit its simply a matted of trying tto keep her alive now . I dont know what advice im asking for i just need somw, i dont know what to do or anything. Sorry if this upsets Anyone. And sorry for the spelling and typing