Might not be on here much

My Dad’s seriously ill, just found out he has bowel cancer stage 4 and spread to the liver. He’s nearly 80. I just feel so sad, my mum is heartbroken they have been married 55 years. Myself and my sisters are trying to support in whatever way we can. If im not on here for a bit please understand. Michelle and Frazer xx

Hi Michelle (& Frazer),

I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad, I’m not surprised you’re Mum’s feeling heartbroken, 55 years is a long time to be together but she has support from you and your sisters which is what she’ll need.

I totally understand about you not being on here, as will others but remember to be kind to yourself too and get plenty of rest.

Sending you all warm thoughts.

Twinkle Toes xx

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Hi Michelle,

Im so so sorry that your poor dad is so ill. It’s really hard for all of concerned. I know you have a good support network, lean on them they’ll help you through it.

Sending you all my love and best wishes. I’ll be thinking of you. Jane. X

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Thanks Twinkle and Jane , I appreciate your friendship and support . I’m fortunate having good support and saying lots of prayers. Love Michelle x

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Anytime Michelle, and we’re lucky to have a lovely friend like you :slight_smile:

Take Care.

Twinkle Toes xx

Thinking of you. It will be a difficult time. Look after yourself. Anne

Look after your folks Michelle & don’t worry about anything. You’ll be okay, you’ve got it sorted.

Remember your dog needs his walkies.

Take care out there. My best wishes to your Mum & Dad.


Spend what time you need to with your dad Michelle. We’ll all still be here when you’re ready to come back and talk to us.

Oh Michelle I’m so sorry to hear about your dad.

It must be so hard for you all, keep your chin up and we will all be waiting here ready for you to come back,

Take Care Michelle,

Love Nina x

Oh Michelle I am so sorry to hear about your Dad, my thoughts are with you all.

Take care we will all be here when you feel ok to come back.


Pam x

so sorry to hear this Michelle.


J x

Hello Michelle.

I read your post with great sadness.

I’ll be thinking of you.

Steve x woof

I am so sorry to read this. How sad for all of you and your mum, who will need a huge amount of support now. Just take as much time as you can with your dad we are not important your parents need you now. Your mum especially so.

Its very very sad stay strong hun. Big hugs. Rosie. xx

So sorry to hear this Michelle, sending much love to you. Sonia xx

So, so sorry.