First of all thanks for the replies.
Most are what I expected althought a couple have taken it as an opertunety to poke fun, well all I can say to them is shame on you.
I could have gone anon.
Good point that I had’nt thought of a femail will probably be gentler.
This question was based on genuine concernes and if you don’t ask or question nothing will change.
To those who seem to think that " manhood " and " size " are an issue, I can only say, its filled two prams