Hi Zetland, Some times people just needs to talk to others who are not family or friends. I for one have been in the same position as Fairy Dust but kept it all to myself and became ill. I would like to think that we can all come here and have a little moan, cry and sometimes, just for a laugh to make things seem a bit better.
You thought writing your comment would help fairy dust Zetland? Sometimes, it’s better to keep silent and consider the other person’s feelings.
Hey Fairy Dust
You wouldnt be normal if you didnt still have feelings for him, this after all is the man you loved enough to marry, Im glad that you
held your head up high, and somewhat saddened by the fact that he seemed to just be moaning…I mean whose fault was
it that you got MS and that he chose to walk out on his marriage…last I heard the Vows included in sickness and in health
I am glad that you sorted out the house situation, always tricky and now its time to reflect on how far you have come during these
five months and to pat yourself on the back…You did it, Im glad you put on War paint and did your hair and showed that
you are strong and can and have managed without him.
Zetland, you seem really angry in most of your posts, i would say this is relevant to this forum because its how FairyDust feels
and shows how in spite of having MS she has coped I wish Fairy Dust all the very best and pray that she continues to hold her
head up high.
Oh Zetland. Please!!
Surely if Fairydust wants to talk with friends on here to help her through this rubbish time then that is fine with me. If you choose not to share personal points of view then that is your perogative. We are all different (thank goodness!)
Take care FD.
(((Hugs)))
Shazzie xx
Thanks Zetland. You have just finished my day off completely. Im guessing you have probably been on your own for a very long time.
I will just rise above your spiteful comment.
Cheers everyone else youve been great.
Keep your chin up. You share what you want whenever you want to. Keep looking forwards and being positive. Roll on Lanzarote… xx
I agree dont let one bad comment get to you, keep going your doing great Sue x
There are a lot of lovely people here whenever you need us FD.
Shazzie xx
you are doing so well,you have come through this last few months,with dignity,now you can look forward to your holiday in lanzorote now, im sooooooooo jealous i love the place,i went there years ago,to playa blanca.
xxx
Fairy Dust - I am so glad that meeting is over for you now. Hopefully you won’t have to face him too often as the solicitors will deal with the paperwork from here on. I know you must feel some sympathy for him but he brought it all on himself and there must have been a reason he walked out in the first place. He’s never been straight with you about that.
You have proven what a strong, independent woman you are and I hope you now have a fabulous holiday and go from strength to strength. Please rise above any negative comments you have had as this forum is for support of any kind and that is what we are all here for - to support each other through whatever life throws at us, to celebrate, commiserate, etc.
I am looking forward to hearing all about your wonderful holiday next.
Take care
Tracey xx
This thread is about supporting fairy dust…can we concentrate on her please. I hope you are feeling more positive today FD 
xxx
Dear Little Sausage,
Here at the MS Society, we are very proud of our moderators, who are not only volunteers, but people with MS who understand the issues shared on these forums AND people’s responses to them.
The Mods devotion and hard work is certainly not something that’s in question now, or previously.
You may not agree with the decisions made, or with the mood of the forum in general- that is your right.
We are less generous of spirit however, when you question the forum moderators, who DO know how to do their jobs
Sometimes it’s best to let people speak for themselves & if one doesn’t agree with another’s observation, it’s often best to ignore it, rather than give it validity/strength by responding- especially if that response involves an attack on innocent parties.
Kind regards
Stewart (admin)
You really are out of order, little sausage. You’ve butted in on this link, without even having the good manners to acknowledge fairy dust. Very rude of you. Enough now, please!!
I would just like to say that Zetland and the three people who liked that post are entitled to their opinion - it is theirs after all. It maybe was not the most helpful thing to say to Fairy Dust but she had shrugged it off as is her pejorative. That should be the end of the matter.
The moderators are all volunteers and on the whole I think they do a very good job. And this is from a person who was zapped (sorry about that mods, fingers worked faster than brain and they thought it was a good suggestion, I do have a chronic neurological condition after all ). I’m sure if enough people including the original poster had complained about zetlands comment then the mods would have done something.
Do try to remember what my granny always said - if you can’t say anything nice then don’t say anything at all!! - and you don’t want to mess with an Irish granny.
Have a relaxing evening all - I’m off belly-dancing tonight!
JBK xx
[quote=“Little Sausage”] [quote=Blossom]You really are out of order, little sausage. You’ve butted in on this link, without even having the good manners to acknowledge fairy dust. Very rude of you. Enough now, please!! [/quote] No I’m not! Everybody is entitled to read any post and nobody has to witness unpleasantness in a thread that isn’t moderated. And see the moderators adding their own ‘likes’. I was hesitant to join this forum because of the rows I saw in the past and the bullying was horrendous. I vowed that if it happened again I would leave. So, moderators, please close my account, you have nothing better to do after all![/quote] Here we go again. This is why I very rarely use this site. I hope the moderators do nothing. I am fed up up with the complainers, and those who shout the loudest getting their own way. Perhaps Little Sausage, if it is that bad, you should leave. @ Fairydust. I think you are very brave. Keep your chin up. Life has a funny way of making things right in the end, just hang in there xxx
Well I started this thread so then I will end it.
First of all your support has been amazing. .
5 months ago my life was in turmoil and I turned to you all for virtual hugs and cuddles, which I got, and thank you ALL for that.
My post yesterday was just to let you know that I was still alive… and coping. I work and I have a family, so really it was just a matter of ‘getting on with it’ which I have done. And I am very proud of the way have dealt with it all.
I certainly never ever imagined that my post would end up like this.
I wholeheartedly agree with JBK’s granny. .
Mods… yes you should of stepped in, but Im not one to tell you how to do your job, the same as you would not tell me how to do mine. Yes I was very hurt by the commet, and that really just finished me off. I switched the computer off and went to bed.
Today is a new day so lets all be friends now please.
Expressing an opinion (however misguided) is fine as long as the terms and conditions are respected. Personally, I think your direct attack on the Moderators smacks of double standards and a very good example of genuine abuse.
Okay, everybody has had their say- and as Fairy Dust has said, ‘Today is a new day so lets all be friends now please’.
Couldn’t agree more. Thank you, Fairy Dust.
And in the namer of peace, love and understanding- this thread will now be closed.
(the mods might like a quiet evening, you know)
Best wishes everyone
Stewart (admin)