I’ve been having real bladder issues recently. My OH refers to them as emergency wee’s (I have emergency poo’s as well) .
By the time I realise I need a wee, I have about two minutes to get to the loo, with stiff legs I’ve already started going by the time I get to my feet or before I get to the loo and on the loo. I cannot hold it at all and in addition to this it can take me several minutes (especially in the morning) for my bladder to empty, I tend to mostly empty then have a few other short spurts, again I can’t control this at all.
What can I do to help prevent accidents? I already wear the biggest Tena pads I can get away with without it being noticeable under my clothes.
I have similar issues with number two’s also although I tend to get a slight tummy ache a few minutes before I need to go which gives me enough warning usually.
It’s limiting what I can do and means I have to carry a change of clothes, pads and wet wipes with me everywhere.