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Good morning msers,

 

Im quite depressed this morning having come across a few bullies this week.  The people in question deal with the disabled yet bully them into submission to further their self importance.

 

Im feeling like I dont want to live in such a world where people who obviously have serious flaws in their own personalities bully others to make themselves feel good.

 

Am I the only one who seems to be living in an alien world or is bullying rifte out there?

 

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Hi.

 

Can’t say I have any problem with bullies, I do get annoyed if I feel I am being patronized.

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Take care.

Chris R.

I. El. (Eng). (Rtd).

I know its going to be a bad day when I get out of bed and miss the floor, today is such a day.

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Ive heard the odd person mention bullying at work, being forced to do things which are perhaps beyond them, making them feel small, or being shuffled into work excluding them.

 

As for the caring profession, it makes me shudder.

 

Bad day, I feel like my whole life is a bad mistake

 

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Sometimes faith in human beings being genuinely nice is jolted by these people.  I was brought up to be polite, kind and deal with others with great respect.  Dont know if its me but lately the government are busy bullying people too by making out the disabled are lazy scroungers.  Perhaps its my frame of mind, feeling quite vulnerable.

 

When I feel stronger I shall make a point of taping them and reporting them - having got the evidence.  People have enough to put up with without people like that vying for attention by making others feel small.  What sort of satisfaction does one achieve by being nasty and putting others down.

 

Imagine these sort of people bringing up children - throwing them up more like.

 

We should all be treated with respect and give respect in return.  Your very wise words have given me faith that I shall not be beaten by these people and when stronger shall expose them for what they are, very small minded sad individuals who shouldnt be around the vulnerable.  Thank you so much.

 

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Hello from the domesticgoddess,

I believe that what goes around, comes around. Inother words they will get a payback. Call it carma or whatever you believe in but i always find this to be true.

Bullies have a low self esteem, so picking on someone who is vunerable makes them feel good. You are so much better than them. Remember this always!

I do wish you all the very best,

Take care and keep well happy2!!

Jane x

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Jane,

 

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I like this quote,

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

  • Eleanor Roosevelt

Bullying is rife in society now. I’ve felt bullied by some medical professionals in the past. My daughter was bullied a couple of years ago by an obnoxious man in the job centre.

As a child I was always taught to walk away but the worm has turned and now I’ll stand up for everything I believe in. I won’t let any one else be bullied either.

Jacqui

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Thank you KC & Jacqui, I did think I was the only one experiencing being around bullying which is now rife amongst those allowed to get away with it because it might be seen as the norm.  Not many people are able to stand up to such, but there again why isnt society standing up against it as a whole including government?

 

I congratulate you both for recognising it exists and doing something about it.  Its so hard to turn the other cheek however if we each try change the world for the better, those in future may be protected.

 

Thank you so much for giving me faith in the human condition.

 

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Hello,

         This is just a short note to wish you all the luck in the world for trying to expose these low-lifes for exactly what they are. Bullies are everywhere and especially in these days of less being available to fewer people, this seems to put even more pressure on the most inadequate of people in our society. I hope that you are successful with your plan.

                 Best wishes,

                                   Moirathumbsup  

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thank you Moira, Im having to be extra careful or it could cause more problems than ever.  These people are clever, backing themselves up so Ill have to plan and make sure there are protections in place.

 

Bullies deserve to be shown up for what theyre worth - nothing.

 

Thank you for your wise words and encouragement.  Long may lovely msers like you live in peace, harmony and be respected.

 

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