Hi, bladder accidents have been, and can still be, a real concern for me, but happen less!
I was on oxybuyn for a long time, but the dry mouth was horrendous. If I had run out water, it would turn to a painful throat!
I tried another common one before that, but its name escapes me just now.
Two and a half years ago, I had a suprapubic catheter fitted. Then a year ago, I was by-passing a lot, due bladder spasms . I had an internal investigation, but nothing wrong was found. But the urologist put me on a new-ish bladder calmer called betmiga. This med causes me NO side effects at all!!
I do sometimes feel as if I could bypass, then I can take a tolterodine tablet…an extra calmer. Occasionally I do by- pass, and its upsetting and chuffin annoying!