Thank you all

I just wanted to thank everyone who kindly offered support and prayers for my Dad (and me) when he was in hospital. He very sadly passed away nearly two weeks ago, so this is a busy time now - sorting the funeral, services, supporting Mum etc etc.

You may remember that on my last visit to the neuro I was told that all MRIs were clear, and all blood work was also clear, and yet I was still (and am still) getting awful symptoms. I am to have physio on my right leg which has somehow twisted outwards and I now walk like half a penguin, and on my hands which are incredibly painful most of the time. I am also waiting for nerve conductor tests, lumbar puncture (maybe), and CBT too (have agreed to this as I am happy to go along with anything neuro suggests). My meds have stayed the same, but I am to up the carbamazapine, and down the tramadol, try to stop the propranalol (to see if I start jerking again).

Anyway, my symptoms havent changed at all since my Dad died so for me I think that rules out stress related symptoms. I am still in pain every day, I still twitch all the time, I still feel the horrible cold water down the leg feelings, I still have back spasms on a daily basis, I still have double vision (mainly in right eye and not all the time), and I still have abnormal responses to all the tests neuro did.

So I stay in limbo. Neuro said there is no evidence of demylinating (which is great), but also said I may have to have all the MRIs again in 6-12 months time. She said there is so far, no evidence of MS or CNS tumour, no brain tumour, but she is still going to see me every 3 months to keep a very close eye on what is happening to me.

So, today, still grieving for my wonderful dad, and trying hard to support my devastated mum (53 years they were together), I am taking the tabs as agreed, am still in pain, and still wondering what is going on with my body.

Thanks to anyone who has actually got to this point of this essay!!

Paula xx

Oh Paula you have had such a rough time. I hope you are taking care of yourself as well as running round after everyone else. Hopefully you will have some answers soon.

You know there are always people here to support you so keep posting.

Thinking of you and sending ((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))

Paula I’m glad things haven’t got any worse for you - it’s the last thing you would have needed.

I’m sure your emotions are all over the place and having to hold it together for your mum as well isn’t easy but you will get through it one day at a time. I hope your children and partner are their to support you so you’ve got a shoulder to lean on but remember we’re always here too. Yes this is labelled as the MS forum but once you have symptoms and you’re here its like every milestone in your life is shared and people are great in that they want to rally round and support it’s like a little family. I know with the issues I’ve been going through with my family accepting my partner - everyone has been fantastic.

In terms of your health I’m glad the neuro’s a re keeping a close watch. I know it’s not an answer but just knowing you have help there if things get worse and you’re believed is sometimes a big relief in itself.

Thinking of you and your family.

Reemz

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Thinking of you at this difficult time.

You know we are all here for you,whatever and whenever you need us.

Pip

Paula, sorry you still don’t have a diagnosis but at least they are taking you seriously and are keeping an eye on you.

What a terrible time you are having lately - I just wanted to send you my support really.

Best wishes to you and your mum.

Teresa.x

Sounds like the neuro is a good one, good luck Paula, Chis

Hi Paula so sorry to hear your news. Karen x

Hi Paula. so sorry to hear your sad news, but remember to look after yourself as well. Glad to hear that your neuro is keeping a close watch on you. Wishing you good luck.

Janet

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(((((Hugs))))) Paula. Kx

Hi Paula, sending you my best wishes too.

It`s good that your neuro is keeping a close eye on you.

Look after yourself hun.

much luv Pollx

Hi Paula, big hugs from scouseland too.(((HUGGIES))). Frank. xx