Does anyone else have stress related relapses? cause I feel another relapse coming on.
I know this is a werid thing to say but it does feel like that.
It all started Monday when I came home from seeing my MS and rang my hubby to put the kettle on and have a cuppa ready for when I get home only to find out that our youngest son wasnt even home from school. So I was worried out of my head (he is only 9) and found him still at school doing a after school football club wihich I knew nothing about cause he signed the letter himself giving permission for him to do it.
Then when I think nothing else can happen the mother in law starts. I put on a Blackberry mobile and a tablet thing like a I pad on my account I have with a shop and she rings today to tell me that she dont want the tablet now she wants the ipad 4. This has just made me so angry cause I was going to get myself a new phone for xmas but cant now because of this. So she wanted me to go into the shop today and change it and pay more money out that we havent got. But she wont take no for a answer she is just ringing and trying to play on the fact that she has helped us out the in past and we dont do nothing for her which is a lie. We also do stuff for her and never get anything back.
I just dont know what to do anymore. All I want to do is cry all the time cause I have had enough of all the rubbish that I get and the guilt trips if I say no. My hubby has tried taking to her and nothing has happened. This has been going on since me and my hubby have been together (thats 13 years now). I had to get some info from my ms nurse to make her believe me that I had MS.
My left arm has now gone numb and thats what happened when I had my last replase in October and it just gor worse from there. And if I do have another relapse it will be my third this year.
Sorry for the long post and moan but I just don’t know what to do anymore. If any one has any ideas what I ccan do please help.
Thanks
Allie x x x