i’ve been complaining to the doctors for 5/6yrs about erectile dysfunction.
then i was diagnosed last nov with ms, question answered but not solved!
i have tried viagra with some success (we have a beautiful son) and cyaliss to no effect.
once when i took a larger dose of viagra my vision went predominantly blue which i told the doc and he said that means i can’t take either of those drugs again!!
i feel sooo sorry for my wife!! i’ve never truly satisfyed her and i wonder why she married me.
i know of one other drug but that’s in the same family as viagra etc so that’s a no no too!
just wondered if anyone knows of a non viagra related alternative?
i leave the guys on here to suggest things that may help…
however,i just wanted to suggest that you leave ur wife to decide why she married you or if she feels let down…its her decision-not urs to make. (guilt doesnt help anyone!)
sex is the icing on the cake,so to speak but dont forget to use the seperate ingredients to explore a new recipe! (gosh-i just made that up on the spur of the moment-its good! lol)
ellie x (who once asked if it was in yet! numbness-so i tried a different combination of ingredients!)
i try not to shut her out but i’m very withdrawn at the mo, we do talk but we’ve had our up’s and downs since diagnosis.
we’ve had a tough time all through our relationship with housing etc but whatever been thrown at us we’ve come through it together!! we do love each other, that’s obvious but we only married last march, our son was born the september before that so i worry sometimes that it might be too much?
think i’m suffering from depression too, got a gp appointment thursday to talk about that so fingers crossed!
we’ll get through this, we alway’s do, and the gp said there may be some alternative treatments, been refered to a specialist for that so we live in hope!!
Ben, you sound like a really caring guy, that’s why she loves you! In bed (and I will post anon for obvious reasons) I’ll be honest even this far in in life I am never bored of the female beauty and with my enthusiastic partner will enjoy ages (has been hours) of pleasure from kissing gently to deep multiple pleasure and in all that time I wouldn’t even have needed an erection. God I feel embarrassed now
I believe there are alternatives to viagra and cialis, for a start only last week somebody on here was asking about an injection which gets you erect on demand. Unfortunately that requires the constitution to inject directly into the penis…which is a tricky thing to do.
You can also opt for a er… splint of some sort. I know there is a surgical procedure which can insert something into the penis which can be expanded to create an erection suitable for penetration.
More importantly, share how you feel with your partner, listen to how she feels. While penetration may be something you both want to experience, you can learn to do some pretty amazing things with your hands and mouth. You just need to be willing to experiment and have fun trying.
This sites rules prohibit me linking sex toy sites however it’s also worth looking at some with your partner. Put some fun into looking, share thoughts and ideas about what you like the look/sound of, maybe buy some toys and have a laugh figuring out what you both enjoy. There are litteraly a million options for how you can both enjoy a good sex life together, I’m not going to pretend they replace intercourse entirely but they can make your relationship better which is always a positive step.
and in all that time I wouldn’t even have needed an erection. God I feel embarrassed now 