My partner is now over 70 and has no interest in sex at all. We haven’t had conventional sex for years, but have always enjoyed being intimate, up until now. My libido is high and have an erection quite frequently. I lost the ability to ejaculate, but love the feeling of my penis being touched, also enjoying seeing my partner’s naked body. I also like the idea of other people (a select few!) seeing her naked … I know this is not normal, but MS isn’t normal either!
Oh I say matron - fair play to you - I’m in my mid 50’s and that part of my life seems to has been taken away with MS which is sad and my wife isn’t bothered so doesn’t affect our relationship
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How does your lady feel about others seeing her naked?
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It is not an issue, because no-one sees her naked; I only said that I like the idea of it happening - it never actually does!!
Do you and your partner actually talk about what you each like? It sounds to me that since you became less “functional” you may be delving into the realms of fantasy. Important that she stays “on board” with your thoughts or you will be drifting apart in the reality.
Have you considered watching porn? Not for everyone but may fulfil a need?
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Thanks for that. We can’t really talk about it as much as I’d like as her barriers are raised as soon as the subject is broached. Watching porn is an option I try occasionally, but I suppose I’ll just have to accept the fact that my erection will have to wait for an ejaculation that’s never going to happen!! Unfortunately the feeling is an ongoing thing, but perhaps will naturally subside as I advance through my sixties!