Relationship help. (Not MS)

It seems to me that if it happens to you it bloody hurts

And i dont believe that secrets and lies cause anything but hurt if you are hiding things like this what else have you hid?

And yes there are two sides to every story but there was only one man for me my husband.Pity he couldn’t say the same about his wife!

And yes Karen my husband had female friends to and often chatted to them so why hide a new lady friends name under a mans for three years?? what does that achieve doubt thats what!

People ask for advice on here all different kinds of advice, and at times it hits home when it is something close to you.This subject is very close to me, and i didnt just want to say yeah fine no problem slap him on his wrists i wanted to let people no thats it’s not ok to be lied to i felt cheated by him. Just like others will feel it’s being petty and hes getting the raw deal and others who have no opinion. But this one i mine and maybe it dosen’t bother others but it also really hurts some!