OK so i have ms… fair enough but my wonderful hubby is driving me nuts.
He works full time-ok
he hasn’t been too well (funnily enough ever since i got diagnosed he seems to get lots more illnesses.) -coincidence eh??
BUT he does naff all at home (have spoken to him countless times about helping out etc but he never actually does)
we have 2 kids (12 & 5) who are great
my daughter is soo helpful,she does shopping for me,washes up.hoovers etc but HE says she needs to do more!!! erm thats not how its supposed to work!
(he doesnt even bath the 5 year old or put him to bed) (i have asked him to lots but why should i ask he’s their dad and should just do it)
i feel like i’m in a relapse that won’t lift it’s not really bad but has been going on for quite a while and the last week has got worse, seriously exhausted, on modafinil and quite a few energy drinks to get through the day also speech is going slurry alot mor and cant get my words out. Said to my hubby i might go to the DR and ask for steroids he said that he doesn’t want me tking more pills and i HAVE to rest and that will sort me out"!!! “you need to come to terms with your illness and do something about it” "f you don’t start resting i will try to get you sectioned so you wont have a choice"his words. nice eh!!! OH he did say he would start doing the washing… once a week (don’t think he realises that i do about 9 loads per week if not more)
so who exactly is going to do everything round the house? Do the school run, shopping etc???
aaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i’m going crazy!!!
Please can someone swap him for the “perfect” man that works and helps out at home and looks after me???
thanks for reading my mega rant!!! feel slightly better now i have aired that!!
Kate x x