Hi guys… this is my advise specially for those married guys… to overcome delayed ejaculation and weak erection, have Kamagra 100 mg, empty stomick… drink after some mango juice…keep a vibrator aside to help you ejaculate… easy no!
Hi,
sex was always and is very important part of our marriage, I have struggled with getting and maintaining and erection also, I went to see my GP who was an absolute pratt about the the whole thing, he seemed concerned about the NHS paying for my sex life ( i pay for my prescriptions still work, was a soldier and a policeman, lucky never to have been unemployed worked since 16 now 52, you would think I would have it covered), anyway he finally agreed to prescribe me cialis, didn’t work too well for me, so I now purchase viagra connect, this works ok, ( I buy it because I really cant be arsed with my GP),
Hopefully you have a better GP than me BUT, there are meds out there which do work and the pharmacist was great and understanding, I was embarrassed but I was made to feel at ease, you are not alone my friend and its not your fault your central nervous system is on the blink.
The only thing I find is that sex has lost an element of spontaneity, but other than that all seems ok.
All the very best.
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Firstly, I have learnt in the 8 years since diagnosis (I’m now mid 30’s with RRMS) I must remember what I was once told about women having to leave their dignity at the door when they give birth. While for some this will be difficult I’d like to believe it is possible for us all. I got remarried and now 3 years later I suffer ED which causes me pain as I wish I could have children with my wife, the hardest thing to get past is the mental feeling of letting my wife down, however, although Sildenafil works in most cases, mental stimulation is also required. Talk with your partner, wife, girlfriend, explain and talk it out with them as like it or not, as much as we want it (yes we do want it), even with pills to explain can open the gates to fun for both parties and make this frustration we suffer, irrelevant.
Hi guys & ladies I was dx 2012 and ED has become a part of my life. So here’s my advice Number 1 MS is a disease which gives us loads of crap from ED to chronic pain, mobility,bladder, bowel and cognitive to name a few. NEVER BE EMBARASSED (F**K IT) it’s not our fault on any symptom and it’s not our choice. Now for me I was prescribed viagra but then moved to Cialis which on a good day gives me erections reminiscent of my teen years. However sometimes it’s not as effective but fortunately my wife is amazing and very understanding. If a guy has a problem either maintaining an erection or ejaculating then often his biggest enemy is his own ego making him feel incapable and aggravating the situation. So try and relax, don’t pressure yourself and don’t beat yourself up either. Only last weekend my wife and I made love but I failed to ejaculate (bit disappointed) the following morning we sorted the problem with varying techniques, like I said I’m lucky, but the more you worry the worse it’ll get so try sorting it or get help and if you need it see your GP they’ve heard it all before. Good luck I wish you all health & happiness Adam
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Hi, I also suffer from ed . I saw my gp and was put on viagara nasty side affects. Then he tried cialis, it worked to a certain amount but he then sent me to the hospital and I saw this very professional lady that talked me through various other options. I ended up on 5mg of cialis per day and a vacuum pump with silicon bands and it works wonders . Back up to when I was 17 again . You get measured for the pump (the pump comes in a manual version or in my circumstances I found that the strength in my hands was weak so I was prescribed an electric version) and the band’s come in various sizes (depending on your circumstances) and of differing strengths. So don’t be embarrassed about going to your gp male or female , they have seen it all before and worse.
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Have tried various E.D med’s but nothing works,i can climax but only through masturbation or another form of foreplay but only ever in a semi erect state i have not been able to have penetratrive sex for a long time (perhaps 8 years) maybe after reading these posts i will pluck up the courage to ask for a referal to a specialist.
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Hello I’m planning to move to London and wondered how much better the treatments are for Ms are there
I’m so glad that someone had the balls to start this thread, even if it was a while ago.
I’m in my mid-fifties and was first diagnosed with MS a year ago, following an incorrect diagnosis in 2012.
Sadly, sex since then has been a dismal failure due to ED. Thankfully I’m married to a great woman who is fully understanding.
Viagra worked quite well, but then I was prescribed Amantadine for fatigue. And my doctor says that I can no longer take Viagra while taking amantadine. She (a locum) didn’t say why… but I’ll be asking my normal doctor when I see him next.
I’ve tried Cialis, but didn’t have much success with it…
I think I’ll be asking my doctor if there is an alternative to the amantadine that doesn’t clash with the Viagra…
fingers crossed
It’s usually best to ask a pharmacist about drug interactions, why don’t you give one a ring it’s more private than going to the pharmacy.
Janx
Hello everyone, my name is Firas am from Jordan and working in Gulf… i have been diagnosed with MS in 2010 with double vision attack to my eyes i couldn’t see for almost a month and non of the doctors knows my problem even i had lots of MRI’s, then when they knew the issue after american doctor came and examine me. anyway at the moment im taking Interferon 44 3 times a week and am really tired and since 2010 till now i had few strong attacks i end up in the bed for months, now my issue is eyes movement all the time 
doctors gave me lots of medicines and my kidney and levers are tired i stop all kind of medicine i want peace and can’t get with my MS… i just travel to UK every year whenever i save some money to relax and am happy am coming this Christmas to spend it there and planning to visit Scotland as well i hope i can feel better. I love you all 
hank you for sharing this. It takes courage to talk openly about erection issues, especially when living with MS. Many men go through the same thing but hesitate to seek help.
It’s good that you spoke to your GP and started treatment. Sometimes it takes a few attempts for the body to respond properly, especially with a lower dose. Medications like Sildenafil 100 mg can be effective when adjusted correctly under medical guidance. Starting with a smaller dose and increasing only if needed is the safest approach.
Also, some men compare options before deciding — while sildenafil works well for many, others prefer to buy tadalafil because of its longer duration. But the most important thing is what works best for your body and condition.
Your experience shows that asking for help is not embarrassing at all. Doctors and pharmacists handle this professionally every day. ED with MS is common, manageable, and nothing to feel ashamed about.
Wishing you continued improvement and confidence
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Thanks Whammel.
Have a great day. 
That is a useful post, honestly. A lot of men build the appointment up in their head like it is going to be humiliating, then the GP and pharmacist treat it like a normal health issue, because it is one. With MS especially, erection problems can be part of the picture, and getting help is better than quietly blaming yourself. Viagra not working perfectly the first couple of times is not that strange either. Stress, timing, food, stimulation, and expectations can all change the result. The sensible bit is that it came through your GP, so there is at least some check on whether it fits your health situation. ED medication can help with function, but it is still worth keeping the doctor updated if results are inconsistent or side effects show up.
I’m glad you found help without feeling embarrassed. Erectile issues are common, and getting support is a good step. I’d also look into options like bluechew phone number, which offers online access to ED treatments such as chewable medications prescribed by licensed providers, making the process simple and convenient.