Hi Corkie
What you should perhaps do, is try out quite a few different catheters. Getting infections from self catheterising could be a problem of technique, or of hygiene (which is really related to technique) or from the actual equipment (again, related to technique). And ask for at least 5 of each type to give them a proper trial.
I don’t think when first taught to do it that I was necessarily given very good instructions or assistance. i had an appointment with a continence nurse and a rep from a delivery company, I was shown a few catheters and asked to pick one (which if you’ve no idea what you’re looking at is lucky a lucky dip). Then I was asked did I want to try doing it on the loo or using a mirror on the bed. I opted for the loo and utterly failed. Then tried on the bed. And utterly failed. Eventually the nurse did it.
I then spent a good two months doing it twice a day on the bed, using a mirror and a night bag each time to collect. I can’t tell you how difficult I found it, getting into the right position, balancing a mirror, having accidents, and going through catheters like no tomorrow.
Eventually I decided to just try doing it sitting on the loo. Hey presto, managed it first time. I think all the time staring into the mirror had taught me something about my anatomy that prior to ISC I just didn’t know. I also didn’t know initially what it was supposed to feel like when you get it right.
To begin with, for about the first 2 years I used Actreen Lite Mini. They’re quite stiff catheters, which I think helped to begin with. Easy to open and coated with lubricant so quite easy to use. However, they are quite hard too. So after a couple of years I decided to try out a few others. Now some of these are so floppy, I’ve likened it to trying to push a piece of cooked spaghetti into my urethra. I think that if the catheter is too floppy, you’re more likely to get an infection from Trying to get it in the right place. I’ve settled on Speedicath Compact Plus. I also had a while of using Lofric. I had trouble getting the water bubble in the Lofric to burst at first, and they are a little bit floppy as well but I did manage quite well on them, generally though I do better with Speedicath.
In the last two years I’ve only had one nasty UTI which took a while and several antibiotics to get rid of and one simple UTI since then. I think my technique is now pretty good and I test my wee all the time so I know pretty fast if I’ve got one.
I should think you will manage to get your technique sorted once you’ve tried a few different catheters and settled on one that works best for you. Keep taking the D-mannose, that should help matters as will drinking lots of water. I tend to only take D-mannose when I go on holiday, because that’s the time when I’m most likely to get a UTI I’ve found, unfamiliar bathrooms make proper hygienic technique harder.
Good luck with it. And ask for help if you need it either from your continence nurse, the delivery company (their nurses can be surprisingly helpful) or of course from us on this forum.
Sue