Divorce support

Hi,
I am really struggling with things at the moment. I am going through divorce and finding the whole process extremely difficult. Please can anyone offer any guidance or advice on how to get through this? My ex is coming after pretty much everything I have to my name, I want nothing of his. He now wants to know my life expectancy. He doesn’t care about my quality of life. I just don’t feel strong enough to fight him anymore.

Take it one day at a time, look after yourself, keep good records, and stay firm with your boundaries

Do you have a good lawyer? I don’t know enough about divorce laws etc but I was under the impression that courts take a dim view of unreasonable agreements.

Have you tried the MS Society help line? Don’t agree to anything unless you are happy with it! Try counter claiming for everything you can get! He is not in control and can’t force anything on you

It’s not easy I think it would be hard for an able body person too. I’m also going through a divorce, although my ex has just left and gone back to his mum. I feel like he did me a favour. I feel more in control of my life.
I hope you can take control of your life before your ex-husband controls his way through.
Luckily, we didn’t have children to confuse the divorce.

I’m really sorry to hear you’re going through such a tough time. Divorce can be incredibly challenging, especially when it feels like your ex is making things harder. It’s important to take care of yourself during this time. Surround yourself with supportive people, consider talking to a therapist or counselor, and try to focus on what’s best for you. Remember, you don’t have to fight alone, and there are people who can help you navigate this difficult process. Take things one step at a time, and remember that it’s okay to ask for help when you need it.