Ok from other posts a few of you will know I seperated last June from my husband. I’m pretty self conscious about my ms. I’ve been asked on a few dates by different guys but I haven’t actually went on any. Part of me thinks . What is the point. My ms seems to be causing lots of problems in the last 6 months from nothing to walking a hassle and that. It’s like I feel I shouldn’t bother and save my energy for my kids And also ms is bad enough for me why inflict it on someone else. Someone said to me oh it’s ok for you. You’ll easily get a guy but il pretty shy. Thanks em
Its diffecult but if you both feel the same it’ll work
I think that if you were ready and the right person came along, you’d have no doubts.
I also think that less than a year after a serious relationship is probably too soon to get involved with someone else, especially if there are kids involved.
Take some time to be single, recover from the separation, help the kids through it and I think that when you want to date again, you’ll know and the MS can be dealt with then.
After I split up with my ex I was on my own for 2 years before I had a couple of “boyfriends” (which were just a bit of fun). After about 3+ years I began to feel like I wanted a proper relationship again. I started seeing a guy and we went out together for a year. He freaked out when I was diagnosed and ended it. I started dating about 6/7 months later and met someone who has no problems with my MS - for now anyway.
All you can do is make sure that you WANT a relationship and are sufficiently recovered from the breakup to get into one.