So Xmas day went lovely I made my little girl and partner extremely happy.We had a lovely Xmas dinner and smiles all round. When I had served up the food and sat down to eat I could have cried as I was so exhausted but didn’t want to say how crap I was feeling as not to get them down. This morning (boxing Day) I really don’t feel well and have explained to my partner *carer but all I’m hearing from him is that he is tired! I would like to feel NORMAL tired 
I don’t have the energy to play with my daughter and her Xmas presents can anyone give me a little advice?
Oh dear - I know what u Mean when u say it would be nice To b normal tired! You’ve put in loads Of effort and given your family a lovely Christmas -today u need to b looking after u. Could u Go and have a lie down for half an hour or so and maybe asnooze? You should then b a little less tired and may be Able to play with your daughter a bit. Or how about snuggling up on the settee with her and watching a film?
We can push ourselves to do stuff on occasions but there is always ‘payback’ and your partner needs to understand this. So please take care of you. Hope u soon feel a bit better.
Sorry about rubbish typing - I’m using my tablet And seem to have a tremble in my hands today!
H x