Ok I know there are a lot of people out there with problems of their own but if there were a prize for screw ups I’m sure I would win. So been diagnosed with MS for a couple of years now. My last partner left me (and cheated) when diagnosis looked likely. I met someone else who said she didn’t care about disease so being grateful I committed even knowing we had nothing in common, Sure enough she told me she had been in prison (my workplace) and even though I had not known her at the time I still reported it to management. We had our ups and downs and then to my horror she ended up in prison on remand last April. I reported this again and she was moved to another prison. (this was not because I had reported it just normal procedure) once moved she phoned and wrote to me and although I had reported it I was suspended and still am. She was acquitted of all charges but this has not made a difference.
I live in a rough area and over the summer holidays local youths have been setting fires, smashing bottles and throwing stones at our windows. I had enough and chased them away with a baseball bat. Did not intend nor did i hit anyone. They ran away and have not been back. However I was charged with a breach of the peace a couple of weeks later, went to court, pled guilty and have been fined £500. Being employed with the SPS and already suspended this may well seal my fate.
If it were not for the stress I was under this would not have happened. In my disciplinary paperwork a past manager says that because of my illness I am now “deskbound” I want to fight this but losing will. Since geting out my partner has abused presciption drugs and I have finished the relationship. so it’s all been for nothing.