eeee I seh! Even more kind replies. You are a lovely lot indeed!
I think I can tell you what this has all been about.
I had the spc op in July (the 4th…Independence Day…that meant more independence for me too) During the night of the op, in hospital, I had to call a nurse, due to a lot of discomfort in my tum…about 4 ins to the right of the op site. I was told it was just post-op tenderness and would go away.
Well It didnt go away! The actual draining worked fantastically…lots of straw coloured wee…plenty of it, but I have always drunk lots of water.
At 6 weeks post op, a district nurse changed the catheter for me, as the pain was chronic.
But the pain wouldnt go. When I went out in the van, the pain was quite unbearable at times. I took paracetomol every 4 hours, but it didnt touch it!
Then at week 9, my carers and me went on hols to Filey, for a week. We went out most days and I always came back in a lot of pain in my wound and tum. When I got home, I got the district nurses out and they said my wound was ulcerated. That was caused by the tube rubbing against the wound. It took a while to go, but did. But the side pain continued. I spoke to my GP and she sent another doc to see me at home. He examined me but didnt know what was what! He prescribed co-codamol and advised me to try to get my November follow up appt with the urologist brought forward.
Well I took the co-codamol and boy! was I poorly! I had 4 seriously awful dizzy dos and knew it was the tablets, so stopped them and told my GP. She advised me re the uro appt too. So hubby and family were really worried and said they wanted me to have the spc out! I thought about it too, but then realised that as I had lost my standing strength, with not needing to use the loo for wees, I would be left using pads and wetting myself all the time. Family and carers were disgruntled with the fact that I had learned about spc through this site.
Anyway, I rang the uro`s sec who said my GP should write a letter. All that was done and yesterday I got a new appt…23rd Oct.
BUT I`ve been on a new med (to me) pregabalin for heel pain… It has taken the tum pain away…totally! The heel pain is reduced, but not gone fully.
So, my carers and hubby know about me finding out about pregabalin from the site and when I said I think it could do with a slight increase, they all had bad feelings for me. I said it is a low dose that im on........75mg........and that I
d read about much higher doses being prescribed. Well they said `Look, those higher doses are given to people with MS. YOU havent got MS!)
So do you see where they are coming from now?
I do, but have decided not to tell them as much as I have been doing.
To reiterate my previous words, I AM NOT LEAVING THIS SITE!!! I have too many good friends here and it is a social outlet for me too, as we dont just talk about illness, do we?
My hubby isnt a talker, hell make me a beautiful meal, build me a deck, but he just cannot sit down beside me and say
How are you today love?` When I am talking to him, he walks away.
if I didnt have my morning carer every day, I would hardly speak to anyone. That`s one of the reasons I love this site.
luv Pollx