I have been involved in my local branch for some time now and am a carer to my wife who suffers with secondary progressive M.S. I really need some advise as I am really struggling with our relationship and feel that I want a divorce. I have been married to my wife for 10 years and we have 2 children, I gave up my career some years ago to become her carer and we had to sell our house as we could not keep up the payments on it.
My wife works full time but it is the time when I am with her that I cannot handle anymore. We do not have any common interests anymore since her condition worsened and due to aspects of her illness she is very slow to react. She does not look after her self that well and I just cannot cope with it.
I am just wanting advise on how to cope as a husband and a carer. I feel totally stressed all the time and I am ready for just disapearing to get my head straight.
I am a caring man and believe a great dad but I am just struggling with my marriage. Any help and advise please.