I am so stressed and upset at the moment and as a result my spasticity is through the roof I can barely stand!
I need to vent.
My youngest daughter started medical school last year. At Christmas she came home and said she was very kean on another student and they had been seeing each other for a while. At that time she had not had sex so I advised her to go on pill but also if the relationship progresses then she should always use a condom. She is 20 had never had a boyfriend. Anyway in February they started a physical relationship and condoms were used. At Easter she stayed with his family and he told her that he had been cleared of STIs at the clinic and he showed her the letter of confirmation . So in April they started unprotected sex and now 3 days ago she was diagnosed with herpes type2 vaginal herpes which is a sti . We now discover that the standard tests don’t include herpes. It is an expensive test and only test people with symptoms. She says she loves the guy and forgives him as he did not know he had it and thought all tests were done and he was clear.
I can’t even tell my husband as this would kill him. I feel the guy has soiled her for life now and she won’t be able to meet another as they will run a mile at the very mention of it. I am sitting feeling so sick . Can’t talk to anyone.