Hi everyone hope your all doing well. Rcently broke up with my girlfriend who has RRMS. We have kind of stayed friends, Texts and been out a few times etc. Her personality has changed for the worse since our break up."Stress of break up " perhaps? Angry most of the time,she did tell me she was angry about “us” her emotions seem to be all over the place. Last saturday we went out and unfortunately the evening ended in a massive argument, to the point she went into panic or anxiety mode. Maybe I am wrong but sounded to me like she is paranoid. Reason I say this she seemed to have convinced herself i was going to physically harm her.During our relationship I never raised a hand to her, never would hit a woman anyway, she then told me i was driving like an idiot and that people do drive into brick walls with there girfirends in the car. We also had a conversation in the car where she said someone at work could be looking to stitch her up. She seems to think everyone is out to get her kind of thing When I got her home she opened the car door while the car was moving. when i eventually stopped she just ran into her house crying. I called her on my way home and she said she needed to be safe in her own home with her things around her. She seems obsessed with her “bubble” sort of thing
My mum phoned her a week or so ago and ex girlfriend kind of opened up to her, they barely know each other, and told my mum that she struggles most days to carry on working. she loves her job btw. BUT she needs the money, obviously for rent etc as we all do. She doesnt sleep properly, always the dreaded fatigue symptom, Some days she does not eat all day except for a couple of biscuits then she eats a non healthy meal at night. She appears to me be living in fear and is definetly in denial with the “i am not ill i am fine” attitude. She just seems to me to be emotionless. I have mentioned that maybe a visit to the GP is whats needed and she just said “I am fine” Obvioulsy I am totally in love with this lady and if its over its over and I know MS is huge strain on relationships and many end because of it. I am extremely worried about her. She has changed so much.
Thoughts and experiences on this please