Hi all
I hope someone out there can advise, or reassure that I’m not just ‘cracking up’
I used to be, up until the beginning of September a very independent, happy confident single woman (middle aged). Then my right leg became paralysed: I was dragging it along the floor. I had an MRI, which showed loads of lesions, and a preliminary dx of possible MS. I then spent six days in hospital having 3x IV steroid treatment and since I have become a fearful, feeble wreck of a woman, who goes no further than my corner shop without being driven & someone being with me…
I keep saying to myself " This isn’t me" ~ " What’s happened to the person I was 2 months a go"
Before ‘leg gate’ I actually travelled on a train (alone) with a massive suitcase to meet up with friends in Cornwall, by Day 3 I was back home but in hospital, and since that day I have had numerous other symptoms (numb bits, pain in my finger tips, stiff painful neck, horrible fatigue and an annoying tremor which makes my hands shake) and I’ve lost my confidence & ability to want to live the life I had before.
I have had a few physio appointments, which have helped a bit, but there is still a ‘marked difference in the strength and sensation’ between right & left leg (physios words) ~ I have to really concentrate on walking so have to walk at a snails pace and get horrendous cramp in my toes, 3 toes curl under after 5 minutes of walking.
And all that scares the b’jesus out of me so much so that I fear that something is going to happen when I’m out alone ~ which is stupid I know as I live alone, and I don’t worry about anything happening when I’m here! My god I am cracking up…
Does anyone else feel this way?
I’ve also noticed that my tolerance to ‘stress’ and basically my tolerance levels in general have diminished - My dear little 2 year old Grandson drives me crazy when he’s here, running around and playing (normal 2 year old play). Whereas before I would scoop him up and distract him, I now look to his Mum (my darling Daughter) to give him a bit of a telling off - lol she doesn’t and just says, calm down Ollie, Nanna wants a bit of peace and quiet. But Nanna doesn’t really want peace & quiet Nanna wants to be Nanna of old - new Nanna seems to win every time though.
I’ve got a Neuro appointment tomorrow - my first since discharge from hospital, should I mention this to him? I’ve got a list of symptoms and questions for him. Are my fears and feelings worth mentioning too?
Any help and advice or just knowing that this is ‘normal’ will be appreciated.
Thank you
Karina