I care for my wife who has had MS for over 20 years. She now has secondary progressive and is a full time wheelchair user.
i can handle the physical disability side of things although that is becoming more and more difficult but it’s the mental side that’s getting to me big time. 90% of the time she doesn’t know who I am or where she is. She becomes verbally aggressive- I’ve lost count of how many times she’s called me a c**t - a word she never use before- she’s constantly shouting about the slightest little things
I find I’m caring less and less for the person I love and married and more for a complete stranger- is it time for me to call it a day??