HI there. I am no quiet sure what I want to say. Mid 50s male and I was diagnosed just over 4 years ago and so far am not too bad. I cope or at least I thought I was coping. I am or was in a long term (7 year) relationship. We are or were engaged and planned to live together this year. I love her and still do. But I think that I have lost my confidence and no longer know how to feel or think - I get easily scared and completely over react if I sense in any way that she perhaps doesnt care for me. I fear that 'over reaction' has now killed off the relationship and her love. The problem is I just dont know how to think or feel any more. The 'inner certainties/confidence' such as they were before MS have gone and everything just seems so big and scary and impossible to see through. Do others find or have experienced this. How do you ever come to terms with it. I think I have been gamely carrying on trying to pretend all is ok whereas underneath it all I am lost,insecure, feel that my role and value as a partner has gone or rather that I cant provide a relationship.