I need to have a little rant I am fed up with some people around me, it is mainly there lack of understanding about how tired I get and I always get challenged and they say thats not MS I take gabapentin too and that makes me tired so I am on the same level… Sorry I get abit angry inside with the lack of understanding of it all…
Sorry everyone I am sure you have been though the same so I would like to hear your thoughts x
Hello there,and I hope the weather is picking up a bit for you.When I’ve tried to explain my fatigue,I have sometimes said,“Remember your worst ever hangover and how tired you were,welcome to my world,and I haven’t touched a drop”.
If anybody says that they’ve never had a hangover tell them to try and stay awake for 24 hours,then clean the whole house.
Hey Moogle - great name. I’m with you on this one. Lack of understanding re fatigue. It’s so annoying. Invisible symptoms are just so invisible. ! I really haven’t worked out how to help my husband understand that I’m so damned tired when reslly with a normal non ms body I shouldn’t be. If that makes sense. So sorry no answer just understanding Hugs Min xx
I know exactly what you mean about people not understanding. They just say ‘Oh I’m tired all the time too!’
My hospital does a course to help deal with fatigue and it explains the different types of fatigue we get (yes there are different types). The MS society does a little booklet about fatigue which is good and you can show it to the people you’re close to so that they can understand it a bit more. I got it and gave it to my partner and family to have a look at and they became more understanding once they’d read it. It may be worth trying that.
Hi, last week I went to a 2 hour meeting about care cuts and had to strain to hear and take in what was said. I had been sitting in wheelie a few hours prior to that…cinema and lunching.
Not much physical effort required, but i was totally shattered by the time I got to bed…oh and i wet myself through not finding a right loo.
Folk must think, how can she be so tired, she`s done nowt!