I have been a full time wheelchair user for many years however have remained as independent as possible in that time. I have always found ways to problem solve most things that come my way but i need some help now please.
I can stand for a few seconds, launch myself over the end of my profiling bed and pull my knickers and trousers up by myself. Sometimes it takes me 6,7,8,9 times to stand and at night i do the reverse to undress. My MS nurse wants me to have a care package to help with this and other things and i feel a bit ambivalent at the moment because i canât see how it will help as i presume the care assistant wonât be able to lift me up. I have a hoist but this still doesnât get round the dressing issue, or does it? I have also been referred to an OT and Physio to see what ideas they can come up with.
Are there are people out there who have got it cracked?! All suggestions gratefully received.
Gill
That sounds very familiar.
I sit on the edge of the bed and lift my left leg over the right. Then for completion, I help myself up on the bed rail and totter for a few seconds. If Iâm unsuccessful, I finish it off on my riser/recliner.
Maybe the hoist can help but needs work!
Best wishes.
hiya
easier or harder to dress on the bed? i know this depends on what u can do.
using commode instead of chair? diff angle/height?
its not blooming easy is it?!
hope you find a way.
ellie
Hi Gill,
Whenever my MS Nurse offers me something that may help I jump at the chance (so to speak).
You donât have to adopt their suggestions permanently.
Anthony
Hello Gill
Itâs flipping hard. I have a fairly handy OH who is often available to help. But even then itâs not always ideal. Being a man, he doesnât understand that sometimes pants shouldnât come up so high you end up with a âwedgieâ. And trousers should preferably be straight rather than off to one side.
When Iâm trying to dress myself I well know the sit-semi-stand-collapse, repeat 10 times routine. I still try. I have a folding stander (like a frame but folding so not constantly in the way). I attempt to stand up from my bed, steady myself on the frame, then pull up pants/trousers before theyâve hit the floor. Then sit back down again (gracefully - not!). Then do it again. And again, generally accompanied by some gentle swearing.
With help itâs not ideal and I quite often end up with trousers just about up, then have to lay down on the bed to do the blighters up. With my helpful husband to give me a hand up.
I can see the point about carers helping, the thing is though, that stand, sit, stand, sit routine isnât a bad thing to keep doing. It actually keeps you doing it. Yes itâs infuriating, but you might find that more help comes at a cost of less ability.
Hmm, a difficult one.
Sue
I have a carer to help get dressed with âthe bottom halfâ. My difficulties are not so severe as yours. Iâd say take the package. You can work out the âhow toâ with the carer. They are trained in moving and handling and safe lifting. It would make the standing bit easier and then steady you for the hiking of the knickers! Plus dunno about you but socksâŚcomplete dead loss w.o. help.
See how you get on. i find the taking it all off does need a carerâŚgravity does a lot!!
Hi
Iâm a wheelchair user too. The way I get the bottom half done is to have my bum near the edge of the chair, Then, I lean back, push down with my feet, and use my core strength to lift my hips up (if you know the âbridgingâ exercise from Pilates, itâs basically a sitting down version of that). I can then quickly pull my undies and trousers up.
Dan
Hi Gill,
Yes, strange yoga like positions to get underwear on. Canât really advice on technique but Summer is so much easier as no tights, socks or trousers.
I use a scooter when Iâm out and about and I wear, what I call scooter dresses. Easy to pull on over my head, no zips, buttons or ties. Slips down over the rest of my body when I stand up. Quite a high neck, so I donât flash things when bending down to put the seat onto the frame. Knee length or longer so I donât flash too much thigh!
Donât wear anything tight waisted like trousers, jeans or shorts.
All bought on auction site as itâs so difficult to get out and about to the shops.
I think there are companies that makes clothing for people in wheelchairs, use the search engine.
J x
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