Great to know you got some help 
Ok, here goes, let’s see if I can make some sense here…my experience wasn’t good, at least 50% because my brain can’t deal with those kind of important face to face situations. I can’t process questions fast enough, I can’t retrieve the information that I need, I can’t find the words to properly convey the info that I can retrieve, I can’t seem to follow through with answers. I didn’t sit there in silence or anything, I gave answers to the questions I was asked, but, well…
I suppose a good example is the chap asked me if I had problems with fatigue, and my response was, “yes, always”, and that was it. He didn’t ask me to elaborate, maybe if he had I’d actually have been able to though I’m not convinced about that. It wasn’t even as if I couldn’t find the words or manage to get my thoughts into words, there was just nothing else there other than that 2 word response. So I didn’t get to tell him how several days each week I don’t manage to get out of bed until mid afternoon (today being one of those days), how at least half of every week I don’t manage to get washed or dressed, how at least half of every week I don’t manage to cook, how my flat is dirty and messy because weeks go by before I get any housework done. All because of fatigue.
Consequently, in my report it says, and I quote:
“Manages her daily toilet, bathroom and dressing chores, regularly washes and dries her hair”
“…cook meals using slow cooker and other gadgets safely regularly to eat regularly and has no accidents”
“does her household chores like load and unload washing machine, dries clothes on airer, iron clothes and do hoover and make beds using gadgets safely by herself”
All of that makes it sound like I can do this stuff perfectly well on any given day, doesn’t it? Hardly surprising because I didn’t get to tell him that no, I don’t manage these things very well, actually. The other 50% is that I filled the ESA50 form out myself, and it was in Spring of 2014, so I answered stuff badly (flat out wrong for one question I know realise), and as I’ve relapsed 4 times since I filled it out my cognitive problems are worse than they were then too. He didn’t want to know about those. I took notes but he said he didn’t need anything from them, he had all the info he needed on the screen (my out of date form) and those notes were for specialists…
So yeah, things are a bit of a nightmare for me right now! But I’m feeling a bit more positive since talking to the MS Society today 