Wheelchair Anniversary

so, its been one year to the day that i first went into a wheelchair full time, i cant believe the year has passed so quickly ? and how much my life has changed !!!

When i first went into the chair aged 25 i felt that my life was over :frowning: there were so many things that i could’nt do anymore, i had to be carried upstairs to go to bed or shuffle up on my bum (which took forever) i could’nt play any sports, i could’nt drive my car, night clubs were a big no no because of access problems and the list goes on … but with the help of my MS nurse and family and friends it all worked itself out, i now have a bedroom and bathroom downstairs in our farm house, i have a car that has hand controls and i have no problem driving, i go Kayaking with a group of wheelchair users and some friends that dont use wheelchairs, (night clubs are still a no no though) :wink: but i still have a great social life and i’m finding new things to do all the time (wheelchair rugby is my next challenge)

when i read this forum and hear all of your story’s about fatigue and how much of a struggle it is just to get up in the morning, let alone make it through to the other end of the day i actually feel quite lucky about my own symptoms, so i would like to thank everyone here that has ever given me some advice or listened to what i’ve needed to say or posted their own story and helped the rest of us know that we are’nt alone in this whole MS nightmare

Thank You

Jemma x x

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That’s just lovely Jemma.It’s reassuring to read this. There IS life after/with ms! Diagnosed suddenly (over a weekend!) aged 55, I was stunned and in denial. 14 months later I am no longer in denial. My rapid mobility deterioration has forced me to accept it. Driven it home to me. I get despondent when I realise what I can no longer do. Then I read what loss others on here have experienced and how they cope or adapt, and it both humbles and inspires me. I’m very fortunate not to suffer any major incontinence problem, (yet?). Due to right leg and foot issues, I can only drive very short journeys now and cannot afford adaptations do hubby is main driver. I am given a daily “lift” when I read some things on here. Thanks for posting. :slight_smile:

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SO. Are we ever going to get an edit button?!

Thank you Poppy, i occasionally wet myself if i’m having an urgent bladder day :frowning: but i’m so thankful that i don’t suffer from the fatigue that a lot of people on here are unfortunate to get (although i do have a nap after lunch) but that’s more about my Mum fussing over me than me actually needing it …

Life is temporary so i try to make the most of it, and if i have to do that from a wheelchair then so be it

Jemma x

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Such wisdom! x :slight_smile: