Tell me I am not alone here

Wow, this is really embarrassing and I can’t believe I am even writing this, but I need to know I am not the only one. I am going thru diagnosis, and I and up that exhausted that I am actually falling asleep during sex! Well not sex itself, but foreplay. Please tell me I am not the only one that this has happenned to. I feel horrible for my husband, as there is nothing that he is/isn’t doing to cause this, if anything it’s because I feel so relaxed with him my body just gives in to sleep.

Hello

Don’t ever apologise for anything you post, it’s what this forum is for.

Your husband sounds lovely so tell him how you feel, especially that you feel relaxed with him.

Explaining fatigue is difficult, the spoons theory may be helpful, (google it). Then again it may be too much to take in.

Just let him know how much he means to you.

A strong relationship will withstand the strain of your MS.

Also he can get support from the other forum (Caring for someone with MS).

Wishing you both well

Carole x

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