Are there any parent out there that have any suggestions we are a stong family but my son has just told us tonight that he has been diagnosed with ms at the moment we dont know which type
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Hello. I just didn’t want to read and run. It must have been difficult for you, and it can get scary. Try to gather as much information as you can. Please give yourselves and your son some time. It’s difficult to accept the diagnosis straightforwardly… I have gone through various stages myself, denial included. I am 43 and I was diagnosed recently with RRMS but I have decided not to tell my family, friends and my colleagues in the office, apart from my husband and my sister who is a medical doctor. I think that your son did well though. The reason he told you is because he needs you by his side, he feels very close to you. It’s great that you can offer a listening ear to him. As with any disease, a positive spirit can make things easier for everyone.
Best wishes
Maria
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Unlike mariab123 I told people. I explained why I walked funny, needed to go to the loo more often, etc. I’ve received nothing but support which is what I think we need and your son will need lots of support going forwards. Hoping things work out for the best for you and your son.
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Hi SJ. I am a stepfather but both stepdaughters are now in their 30’s. I have MS ( daughters are fine).
I’m not quite sure what sort of suggestions you are looking for?
Most ( around 85-90% ) of diagnoses are Relapsing Remitting which is what my diagnosis was some 17 years ago. I’m not doing too bad. Can’t walk for more than 15 or so minutes but no other significant problems…
More than happy to answer any and all questions you might have
With best wishes
I am sorry that this trouble has come to your family’s door. I do not have children, but honestly I think when I was diagnosed 20+ years ago, aged 40 or so, it was tougher for my dear late parents than for me - and it was tough enough for me.
One thing is for sure, it is a blessing to have a strong and loving family at one’s back. Even if one is inclined to not talk about it much, knowing people are there for you has great power.