Making people understand how youn feel

Poor you Janet! Nice to be able to laugh though - don’t ever lose that

Kx

I am back where I started but worse. My husband has got to go into hospital to have an operation. At his pre-assessment appt’ they told him he was hypotensive, his blood pressure was high, to high and the nurse told him that the worry of me was the probable cause. How do I cope with this, he is so depressed, stressed out, Oh how I wish I hadn’t got this monster! I just don’t know which way to turn without upsetting him.

Janet x

(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

It is NOT your fault.

Hang in there. You’ll work it out.

Karen x

Thanks Karen, he is now going in hospital nxt Tuesday (so long as a bed is available) and I’m hoping he will not be so stressed out once his knee is all sorted out.

Had to have a check up today at Moorfields and one eye the pressure is very low, but as per norm they can’t see anything wrong, so I guess it’s the MS again. I’m sure hubby being stressed is now making me stressed out. Vicious circle I’m afraid. Just hope priorities come into practice!!

Janet x x dot.com!

Good that it’s Moorfields - at least you can have faith in them.

I hope the bed comes free on Tuesday and everything goes well. First step to things getting easier with any luck!

Kx

Well the big day arrived and hubby has had his op’, already he seems happier, the pain he had all down his leg has gone. Still very sore where they went in but a dose of the morphine they gave him should help him to sleep tonight. I’m now hoping he goes back to being his old self…happy. Then he can cope with all that my problems bring.

It was a long, long day and I’m totally worn out, I think a fortnights sleep would help!!!

Janet x!.

Hi Janet Glad hubby has come through it well and hope he is home soon. Try not to worry too much about him- I know that’s easier said than done! All this stress can’t be good for you. Try to get as much rest as you can. Thinking of you, Teresa xx

Everyone who contributed, it has been a great comfort to me and now it’s 23rd Dec’ I’m actually beginning to look forward to Christmas instead of dreading it.

I wish you all the very, very best Christmas and that the New Years sees your problems go flying out the window…just one thing collect mine on the way please.

Janet x