Hello Hayweb, so sorry you’re in the same place as me, it sucks 
And you’re mirroring me with a relapse at Christmas too
Glad yours has started to improve. Mine started Boxing Day with Bladder problems (slightly improving), elbow and knee joint pain (now gone) and the absolute worst painful burning in the soles of my feet which is still here and keeping me awake most nights Grrrr!
My journey to the MS Nurse was quicker only because I was pro-active and chased it, which after such long wait times and cancellations for everything non-covid related this past year, I truly believe you’ve just got to take control of your own path and bang on the doors all you can right now.
So, firstly I would advise to bypass your GP, if as I suspect, they are anything like mine, I’ve been with the same one for the last 19 years and he missed THIS, so I feel your pain there! Plus, there is no one more invested in getting you better than YOURSELF, so don’t leave it to others if you can help it. After my diagnosis by phone on the 21st December, the neuro said he would be putting me in touch with the MS Nurses and also starting me on steroids, which he would send out to me to start after Christmas. I had previously obtained the phone number and email address of my neurologists secretary (you can get that from the hospital switchboard) because I had to fight for a diagnosis after my face to face appt with the neuro was cancelled, I begged appointments to give me a phone consult to no avail, so even though the secretary’s answerphone message said ‘if your query is about appointments, please call the appointment booking department’, I ignored it and instead left a message appealing to her to help me get a phone diagnosis before the year was out. She came through for me within a week with the appointment for the 21st, she was so lovely, super helpful and knowledgeable too. So I knew when I got new symptoms on Boxing Day and once the post started coming through again and I had no letter or prescription as promised from the neuro, that I could just contact her again, this time I emailed as it was the holidays on the 30th Dec and explain what the neuro had promised and that I had new symptoms and could I please have the contact details of the MS nurse so that I could talk it through with them. By the next day I’d had a reply, even though she was on actual LEAVE, as was my neuro, she still actioned a letter and the prescription to the Nurses, and they both emailed me and phoned me that very same day, the 31st, offering me a face to face meet just 5 days later, which if you read some of my other posts, I explain how that went - i.e.brilliant! I couldn’t be more grateful to the secretary and the nurses, they were all so understanding and so accommodating and so lovely. So follow my lead and hopefully yours will be just as nice! And … I just got a letter through today from the booking department with my ‘original’ appointment to see the MS Nurse actioned by the neurologist on the 21st Dec. The date for that FIRST appointment with them was in MAY!!! SOOOO glad I didn’t have to wait that long!
I’m with you on being adamant on taking DMDs, I know some people chose not to, and there are worries with the side effects, but I still feel young and if there is finally a chance of having some symptom free years ahead of me after living with this for maybe 22 to 27 years, with NO treatment, then YES PLEASE! I too have had a lot of Diclofenac and Naproxen and Co-Codamol over the years, so I also worry about liver damage, but my feeling there has been helped by the MS Nurse and this forum, I am put at ease that the continuous testing that gets done whilst we are on these drugs ensures that anything untoward is picked up quickly and then we can make informed decisions to change course from there before it gets too bad, so I’m really not going to let that worry me anymore. I’m leaning towards Tysabri at the moment, however I’m going to ask for the JC Virus test first and get these steroids, and the 14 day self isolation I have to also do whilst taking them, over first and then I’ll get pro-active again with the next step - DMDs!
All the best, stay in touch and let me know if you get through to the nurses, I’ll keep fingers and ‘burning’ toes crossed for you 