Your experience is very to mine, and a lot of others, as I knew there was something wrong for a long time before I was dx so it was a relief to finally stop being labelled as a hypochondriac!
For you this must have been a terrible shock and I can’t begin to imagine what you are feeling at the moment! But try to remember that, even though it is incurable, there is so much that can be done to manage MS. and what’s more, there are many promising treatments in the pipeline.
There will be bad days (I’ve had one today, my husband took the brunt of it!) but remember they will pass. You won’t be alone, when you feel that no one understands or you need to let off steam there’s always someone here to listen.
Hopefully you will have an MS nurse, they can be worth their weight in gold, but even if you don’t you should get plenty of support, if it’s not offered ask for it!
The most important thing at the moment is to take your time feeling what ever you need to feel and take the time to look after yourself.
Sending hugs of support