Hi Purple,
At one time, I was in the work related activity group, and even then it was clear I was too ill to work. However, I attended just to keep my benefits going. The same lady saw me for every appointment, ( cant remember how often it was ) and we built up a lovely friendship. She was wonderful, warm, so understanding and helpful. She was such a good listener, I actually enjoyed going. It was never for long, just 30 mins. Even when I cancelled appointments due to increased pain/sickness, they worked around me, letting me either have talks over the phone or just moved my appointment dates around. They were very flexible and accommodating.
Like Mags said, my adviser never even questioned my health, and we did not discuss getting back to work at all, as there was no point. She could see I was too ill, and just used the appointments as therapy sessions really. Apparently alot of people were doing this. It was a chance to get things off my chest, talk about anything and everthing and even have a good cry ( I had just had to give up the job I loved).
Im not sure its the same for everyone, but I did know that alot of very ill/disabled people attended these sessions and did not even discuss anything work related.There was nothing the advisors could do to help, with regards to getting back to work. Basically, it was just to tick boxes and keep their benefits going, and from what I saw, the whole team were lovely to everyone.
At first though, like you I was very confused and it was not explained to me what WRAG was, and why I had even been put in this group. So I contacted my local Disability Advice Project ( also for people with illnesses) and they gave me plenty of help, reassurance and explained everything. I would be lost without this team. Ever since then, they have gone on to help me with DLA and DWP forms and tribunals. I understand the system much better now and still call them when ever I need them.
Try contacting your local Disability Advice centre/service. I found them much more informative than the DWP helplines. This way, you will stand a better ground and be sure that you are put in the correct group in the future.
Its definately worth a shot.
Almond xxx