Hi to all of those who provided advice yesterday…my hubbie and I had a long chat last night and came to the decision that we are going to stick with just the one child. We talked through the pros and cons and overall evaluated whether it would make us anymore happier than we are, improve our life or impact I negatively? We came to the conclusion that there are no certain answers to these questions but the reality is that M.S is unpredictable so to be cautious we are as said going to get on with our lives with our beautiful boy and enjoy what we have and be very grateful for this. I think we both feel a sense of relief about this especially my husband truth be known as he admitted he had been having doubts for a while now for several reasons, one of them the terror of charlies birth for him (I was unconscious throughout the very traumatic time) and the thought that things could change drastically with a new baby impacts too. So this is a message to say thanks a lot …you really have helped. Now the mission is to clear the loft, sell the baby things and make some profit. Oh and do our house up without worries that we need to keep money back for a baby. I see new blinds, new curtains, new porch, back garden to be done…now I’m getting carried away! 
best not tell the husband that bit eh? Xxx
Hi again. Glad you`ve made the decision which was right for you, your hubby and wee Charlie.
Give your brain a rest from that now and use the energy on house doing-up!
luv Pollx
Thanks Poll x x x