Watching my mom fade away

Hi my heart is breaking right now and I could really do with some support my moms had MS for over 30 year’s is bed ridden and is starting to lose her mind , she’s not speaking is barely eating and drinking and is barely recognising her loved ones I can feel her fading away and I no one day soon I’m gonna lose her and I really don’t no how I’m gonna cope she’s the reason I am the person I am today she fought to give me the best in life I just wish I could do the same for her and take away her pain and give her that happiness and love she deserves why is life so unfair she’s one of the kindest most beautiful super women with the biggest hearts seeing this disease take away a piece of her each day is killing me I no there’s a lot of people in this situation I just don’t want to feel so alone , thank you for reading Becky xx

Hi Becky, oh sweetheart, I do feel for you.

It is so sad and yes, unfair too, what is happening to your mum.

You are a good daughter and I`m sure your mum knows that.

I`m just wondering, when did your mum have any last medical interventions? Could there be something else going on…bladder infection? They can cause untold problems. Maybe get her urine tested, eh?

Apart from that can a GP come in and check her over?

Are her pain levels dealt with adequately? There may be something to help with that.

Just keep being the best daughter you can. Bless you

Boudsxx