Sorry about your child possibly having MS. Dont you think a lot of us have suffered losses with MS. Maybe you should start a thread, how much have you lost with MS or somethingâŚ
I had a great job earning 25,000 a year, i loved it and worked hard to get it in the first place. I had to wait 10 years to get a diagnoses being treated like crap and difference a long the way.
I have 4 grandchildren all suffering with either ADHD, or depression, one suicidal and cutting. I worry everyday that i may give this disease to one of them. Both my daughters are disabled, with one thing and another. I just lost my mother she died through NHS neglect.
My husband is dying with COPD and he ignores all health advice, I am watching him slowly killing himself with cigarettes, it makes me feel awful like he has given up on us both.
My sister is just recovered from another bout of breast cancer and has lost both breasts now. My brother has inherited RA, my other one dysautomia, and my eldest is crippled with rheumatoid arthritis.
Everyday is a struggle for me to get up i dont want too i have had enough, the pain is relentless especially at night. What have i got to look forward to today, oh yes exclusion, i cant get out on my own i have to rely on someone, i cant drive i not only have MS i have Transient Epileptic Amnesia, and loose minutes even hours sometimes and have ended up in hospital several times not knowing what i am doing. I am not allowed to drive anymore. I feel like a prisoner in my own home. I rarely see anyone expect my husband who is about as useless as a chocolate teacup.
So yes i am depressed. I dont tell people on here because hell they probably are too, and why make their lives harder, i have 65 good years, and would rather be up beat with people, and try to help them then let then be ignored.
If anyone writes they feel depressed etc i always believe its a cry for help.
In future i will be more careful who i help. I know you are talking about me in some respects because you challenged a post i put on, but i notice you never answered it.
Anyway I have played my hand now, shall we now have a spar about who has suffered the most? Maybe that will make us both feel much better.
I always look on the bright side of life, as now i have a wedding to look forward too my step daughter is finally getting married she is 44 after some terrible failed relationships but it is so sad too as she has bought it forward as her mother after 5 years of being cancer free now has it in her bones and is dying so she wants her to be there. I have helped as much as I can but i am still excited for her but it is so bitter sweet and i know i will have to be there for her when the time finally comes for her mum to leave her. Even saying all that there is always something good for us to look forward too if we look in the right places. x