Hi all
This will be brief as Im kind of lost for words atm.
I had the results of an MRI yesterday and have been told that there are multiple lesions consistent with demylination. Im assuming that this means probable MS? It would explain all the crazy symptoms which have developed over the last 12 months, including 8 tinnitus noises which are too loud to mask, hearing loss, eyesight problems etc etc.
I know this might sound self-pitying but I feel completely broken. I was happily married last year, finishing off my phd, seeing friends on a Friday night, and in pretty much perfect health. Now Im divorced, have had to give up on the phd, have lost my job and my home, and am staying with relatives in wales, who understandably have got sick of me going on about how i ill I feel. I think I have developed severe depression and suicidal ideation. Basically, I cant stand the constant noises, flashing lights, pains etc. And I can see no way back to a normal life. I am also consumed with guilt about maybe having caused the MS through my own stupidity.
I don’t really know what to do now. I loved peace and now I have noises blasting in my head, I loved to think and argue but now I think my cognitive skills are rapidly declining. Its like the essense of me is draining away. I use to hav a good sense of humour, and be pretty compassionate. Now I just think of me and would not recognise a joke if it smacked me in the mouth.
I guess Im looking to find out if I can get through this and if so how. I always use to be positive about life but now I just want this to end. I know that is the wrong attitude but I cant seem to get past it.
Thanks for any help that you can give and thanks for the forum,
Kind regards
Robert