But Daddy, we don't know you!

I agree with so many of the comments here and I know exactly how lucky I am with my Mum, she’s raised 6 of us (3 of her own & 3 adopted) and as a consequence we have the most amazing relationship and I see the good she’s done.

I shouldn’t wonder that both me and my sister have our step kids living with us because of their difficult realtionships with their mothers.

that’s probably the only good thing that comes out of bad experiences is that we better understand and when we see good examples, we follow them!

I hope your kids are gonna be better people for having you as a parent :slight_smile:

Sonia x