If a so called friend, asks for a favour. Tell them to get lost!
A few years ago. A guy I know, turned up on my door step, after he knew I was recently diagnosed with PPMS.
He was in tears, saying his beloved car needed a new engine & he needed help. I could hardly stand & he kept demanding. Giving me all the hardships under the sun. I’ll lose my job & all that crap. He knew I was his only option.
Silly me, organised everything. I told him to leave the car & collect it in a few weeks. BIG MISTAKE!!!
He turned up to collect the car, after I told him, I’d arranged everything & it was done. He was delighted, able to go to work, live his life & pretend to be a real man. Little did I know, the friendship we had for 30+ years meant nothing. The huge cost to me, was totally ignored. All I heard then, were excuses. My partner is being tested for cancer, her kids all need clothes, we need a holiday from all the stresses of life & so forth.
Did I see him again & the money I loaned. NO!
Not only that, he disowned everyone in his life, that was linked to me. Now that is the level that humanity will stoop.
Since being diagnosed with PPMS, nearly everyone I have known, has become the same. Hence my constant ranting & descriptions of leaches & vultures.
The people I know, know I’m NOT full of crap like most.
I do stuff & organise my life, adjusting to the circumstance I am forced into.
It seems others are not so able & talk a lot of shit & they get believed.
The truth is, you can only truly trust one person, when you have problems & that’s yourself.
Anyone who reads this & knows me. Get lost! I’m sick of scroungers, free loaders & all the other mental excuses.
I’ll deal with all my problems myself, because I can.