I’m really proud of my daughter, she has just passed her final exams to become a Learning Disabilty Nurse and her graduation is next month. Already my anxiety has gone into overdrive, what am I going to wear? I will need to be in my wheelchair, I asked my daughter what the accessibility is like in the venue. Her reply? Mum you are not the only disabled person in the world. Now I never saw myself as being self-centred but I am beginning to think this illness has made me. Or is it that we have to be so organised to do anything.