Have you had a hormone check? as you might know I’ve been suffering with “womens” problems.
I’m 55 and think I’m now post menopause, they’ve fitted me a marina coil (progesterone laced) 7 weeks ago since then I’ve not had any hot flushes and until the heatwave struck I’d stopped waking up hot and sweaty in the morning.
if you’re producing oestrogen maybe your hormones are confused!
i was once told decades ago that some women never stop having hot flushes (although I do wonder if that was an old wife’s tale)
if they’re impacting your life maybe the doctor should be made aware of that.