Last night, I suddenly got a sort of visible twitch in an abdominal muscle, freaked me out as it felt just like when I was pregnant and baby was moving or hiccuping!
Having reassured myself that I’m not pregnant, I promptly told my husband I want him to get a vasectomy since the (even remote) prospect of getting pregnant is so beyond consideration now that it would be a complete disaster. I am nearly 40 and do not have the energy anymore!
So, number one - the twitch is annoying but not painful, do I chalk it up with other random ongoing sysptoms or a relapse?
Secondly, is it safer for him to have the snip or me? I suspect he fears it more than me (brave men ), but I just want to be sure I won’t get pregnant ever, and have the least chances of long term problems from it. I read something about long term pain after vasectomy but information seems to vary wildly about how likely/bad it really is.